No, just undergoes difficulty making decisions when it comes to "what he wants" vs. "What everyone else wants". Everyone else being his friends and family members and their friends.
Maybe he's too reliant on them, to reliant on the constant approval of the long standing persons in his life, it would make him afraid to move forward. The strength would come from knowing what he really wants and going for that, but to make "everyone else" happy, it's still unfortunately a choice he is making.
Maybe this is too heavy of a thought to be thinking about at this hour, still deciding if this is late at night or early in the morning.
He definitely is. It's what everyone who know the two of us has said. He never wants a heavy decision to make, nor does he know how to pay his own telephone bill. I'm sure he'll learn the choices he'll have to make eventually, I've tried opening his world previously, but it wouldn't take, he just felt pressured into "maturity" rather.
1:43am would be early morning unless on a long day, a late night :p
I've had an instance of that before in my life, unfortunately life does not seem to agree with being "chilled-out" every day of your existence. You wake up one day, hard on your ass.
Especially when other people are sacrificing themselves and their lives for you to experience this "chilled-out" state. I guess it's a huge difference in perspective and lifestyle.
Maybe it's more to do with the way one was raised, certain ways of growing up have people take a lot of things for granted. If while growing up you have to fight for the things you want, or the things you get are few and far between, you learn appreciation a hell of a lot quicker.
I'm going to go ahead here and assume, mother issues ?
ReplyDeleteNo, just undergoes difficulty making decisions when it comes to "what he wants" vs. "What everyone else wants". Everyone else being his friends and family members and their friends.
ReplyDeleteMaybe he's too reliant on them, to reliant on the constant approval of the long standing persons in his life, it would make him afraid to move forward. The strength would come from knowing what he really wants and going for that, but to make "everyone else" happy, it's still unfortunately a choice he is making.
ReplyDeleteMaybe this is too heavy of a thought to be thinking about at this hour, still deciding if this is late at night or early in the morning.
He definitely is. It's what everyone who know the two of us has said. He never wants a heavy decision to make, nor does he know how to pay his own telephone bill. I'm sure he'll learn the choices he'll have to make eventually, I've tried opening his world previously, but it wouldn't take, he just felt pressured into "maturity" rather.
ReplyDelete1:43am would be early morning unless on a long day, a late night :p
I've had an instance of that before in my life, unfortunately life does not seem to agree with being "chilled-out" every day of your existence. You wake up one day, hard on your ass.
ReplyDeleteIn that case, lets go with a late night.
Especially when other people are sacrificing themselves and their lives for you to experience this "chilled-out" state. I guess it's a huge difference in perspective and lifestyle.
ReplyDeleteMaybe it's more to do with the way one was raised, certain ways of growing up have people take a lot of things for granted. If while growing up you have to fight for the things you want, or the things you get are few and far between, you learn appreciation a hell of a lot quicker.
ReplyDeleteDefinitely in agreement.
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